• ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I’m not allowed to work from home and it seriously pisses me off. Whenever I complain about this to my boss, she always gives me shit like “you’re a school bus driver”.

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      8 months ago

      I am in a weird position, as a software developer, I work for a tiny company and they’re against work from home, but they’re absolutely amazing and accommodating in all other areas and I have no complaints.

      So I had car issues and was able to work from home 3 days a week, but it still pisses me off that I have to go in those two days. They say it’s so we can communicate and ask for help, but mostly it’s a silent office and we can’t even wear headphones. Often I can go in and if I’m in a mood there is no communication all day long (I am the chatty one and will engage in debates a lot). Yet I’ve had to take a 3 hours public transport route to work (car issues) just to sit there and not talk.

      I’m torn because they’re amazing in every other aspect and super understanding about my mental health issues and leaving early and making up time etc. we don’t have targets and are just trusted we will work hard, I struggle as I overthink and put a lot more pressure on myself than my employer does, but I can’t change the way my mind work.

      • funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works
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        8 months ago

        accommodating in all other areas

        have to be completely silent at work

        can’t wear headphones

        they don’t get mad when I’m sick

        no communication all day long

        don’t have targets

        are you sure?

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          8 months ago

          Absolutely. As I said when I had car issues, which are ongoing for almost a year now, I was able to work from home.

          If I’m not in a good head space I can just log off and make up the time whenever I want. I get as much support as I ask for.

          With the no targets (even if my brain doesn’t do well with that) it means I just work and never get questioned about how long something is taking.

          My boss will take my neurotic nature into account when doing things. So when he took me out of the office to give me my raise after a year he messaged first to say can you come outside with me, don’t worry it’s not for anything bad.

          I am being mentored and when I ask for help he will break things don’t and tell me why he made certain choices when engineering a solution.

          Edit: Naturally this is my first role in this industry so I have no frame of reference.

        • pumpkinseedoil@mander.xyz
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          8 months ago

          By spreading such usage of the word Nazis you’re numbing down the average person’s response to someone being called a Nazi, as it becomes a normal thing.

          Save the term for people who deserve it