you can request some in the replies too and i can find some!! please also let me know if there is more that you know of to add!!
from what i can find and only some:
mandarin - fasheng.ing
portuguese - lemmy.eco.br
lemmy.teuto.icu
forum.ayom.media
spanish - mujico.org
chachara.club
russian - rekabu.ru
shibanu.app
japanese - lm.korako.me
philosophy.cafe
fenmou.cyou
polish - szmer.info
german -
stammtisch.hallertau.social
rollenspiel.forum
lemmy.fedifriends.social
lemmy.klein.ruhr
linz.city
french - social.ggbox.fr
links.gayfr.online
kourjetez.bzh?
danish - feddit.dk
swedish - aggregatet.org
italian - feddit.it
yayyyy im glad!!!